SO/SX 三号的本能变体（四）
社交/一对一
这个类型会导致大多数社交/自保的叙述中社交变体的问题。主要的区别在人际关系方面。因为这仍然是一个社交副型，在有对财富认同的文化中，这种三号为财富的累积而努力奋斗。获得物质财富的动机比起为了寻求稳定更多是纯粹为了社会赞赏。因为自保本能是最差的，这种三号将会很难在实际事件中扩展足够的能量，除非有社会压力要求这么做。所以，就像社交/自保三，这种三号将会有一个令人满意的家，但是意外的访客到来时很有可能陷入混乱。对于社交/自保类型，有一种更内部的动机（源于次级的自保本能）来为他们获得秩序和稳定。对于社交/一对一副型保持外表的动机更外部化。
这个类型仍可以是物质上成功的，但他们不会像社交/自保三那样直接集中于目标。有很多情况娱乐（甚至是过量的）的诱惑会超过安分守己的需要。这种三号社交/自保更注重人际关系，也远远比社交/自保更渴望亲密经历。社交本能在首位而性本能作为依靠，创造了最爱玩的一种能量组合，让这种三号看起来像七号。当社会认同仍然是主要的焦点时，性方面的认同和亲密行为也是可以被发现的，这一副型在关系方面更可能做出“不切实际”的选择（尽管他们也许有着一些藏在公众监督之外的“社会不可接受”的朋友）。
当这些三号健康时，他们人际的技能成为一个有用工具，让他们脚踏实地，让他们找到他们真正想从生活中获得的东西，并让他们找到他们真正是谁。他们学着保持一个更连贯的身份，把他们真正是谁这个问题放在处理的前面，这意味着首先要认识真正的自我。
Social/Sexual
This stacking will cause most of the social variant issues described for thesocial/self-pres to manifest. The primary differences will be in the arena of interpersonal relationships. Because this is still a social subtype, this Three will strive for the accumulation of wealth in cultures where there is social validationfor wealth. The motivation for attainment of material wealth will be derivedless out of need for stability and more purely from the desire for socialadmiration. As with all self-preservation last types, this Three will find itdifficult to expend sufficient energy in practical matters, except where thereis social pressure to do so. Therefore, just as with the social/self-presThree; this Three will have an desirable home; but most likely it will fallinto disarray when visitors are not expected. With the social/self-presstacking, there is more internal motivation (stemming from the self-preservation instinct in the secondary position) to maintain order andstability for themselves. With this soc/sexual subtype the motivation to keepup appearances is more purely external.
This type can still be materially successful, but they willnot be as directly focused on this goal as the social/self-pres Three. Therewill be many occasions where the lure of enjoyment (even excess) will takeprecedence over the need to stay on the "straight and narrow." Focuson interpersonal relationships, as well as longing for intensity of experienceis far more pronounced in this type of Three than in the social/self-pres.Having the social instinct backed by the sexual instinct creates the most playful energy combination, making this Three seem somewhat like a Seven. While social validation is still the primary focus, sexual validation as well asintimacy are also sought, and it is more likely for this subtype to choose“impractically” in the area of relationships (though they may keep their more“socially unacceptable” friends hidden from public scrutiny.)
When these Threes are healthy, their interpersonal skills become a useful toolfor grounding themselves and for finding what they really want from life andfor finding who they really are. They learn to maintain a more consistentidentity, bringing all of who they really are to the forefront, which meansrecognizing the real self first.
