SO/SP 三号的本能变体（三）
社交/自保
社交本能与第三型主导结合增强了向外界寻求认同的渴望。这种三号因较高的社会地位从同伴中获得赞赏。当然，实际的赞赏的来源（钱，一个大房子，学位，浮华的汽车，等等）取决于个体的生活环境而不同。但是，目标总是得到一个在他人眼中值得嫉妒的地位，这需要一定程度地符合这个个体文化的标准。比如，一个生活在美国社会的社交/自保三会努力工作，通过表现大多数美国人现在与完美联系在一起的品质，成为“美国梦“的缩影。这些三号将会努力工作来寻找一个有吸引力的伴侣，获得一个美满的家庭，开一个高配置的汽车，当然，要拥有着具有身体上的吸引力的外观。最重要的是，除非社交三发觉他们的地位与其他人相比是”杰出的“，否则他们会彻底地感到自己是无价值的；没有中间地带。这来源于第三型人恐惧他们内在是空洞的，必须持续地接受认同来证明他们价值。社交三因此集中他们的能量在社会地位方面。
当次级本能是自保本能时，对物质稳定的需要被增强了。对于这个类型，地位总是与财富联系在一起。这经常导致一种寻求赚钱的、十分受人尊敬的工作的的倾向，比如在医药、法律领域等等。自保在第二个位置也会导致，在社会需求已经被认为不可以实现的情况下，他们对健康和安全的恐惧和关注。
性本能在最后的位置减弱了这个类型对亲密关系和（感情方面）强烈的需要。但是，身为一种社交副型，这种类型三可以模仿一种性本能变体的活泼和外向。但是，他们有时缺少持续的亲密关系，因为社交和自保的本能会超过较亲密联系的力量。结果，不健康的这种类型三有很多在高地位且成功、受人尊敬的同事，但是他们也许缺少关系深入的、真正的朋友。
当这个副型健康的时候，他们会变得非常慷慨，并直接引导他们的高能量和热情进入社会圈，带来非常积极的结果。
Social/Self-Pres
The social instinct combines with the dominant Threeness and accentuates the desire for external validation. This Three derives validation from peeradmiration due to high social rank. Of course, the actual sources of admiration(money, a large house, college degrees, flashy cars, etc.) will vary greatlydepending on the individual life circumstances. However, the goal will always be on attaining an enviable status in the eyes of others, which necessitates a degree of conformity to the norms of the individual's culture. For example, asocial/self-pres Three born in American society will likely strive to epitomizethe “American dream” by embodying all the qualities most Americans currently associate with perfection. These Threes will work tirelessly to find an attractive mate, attain a beautiful home, drive a high status car, and, of course, possess a physically appealing appearance. The bottom line is, unlessthe social Three perceives their status as being “exceptional” compared totheir peers, they feel utterly valueless; there is no middle ground. This stemsfrom the Three*s fear that they are inherently empty and must continuously prove their worth by receiving validation. The social Three thus focuses their energy on the arena of social status.
When backed by the self-preservational instinct, the need for material stability is intensified. For this stacking, status will invariably be associated with wealth. This often leads to a tendency to have lucrative, highly-respected careers in fields such as medicine, law, etc. Self-preservation in thesecondary position can also lead to fears and preoccupations with health andsafety when the social needs are believed to be unmet.
Having the sexual instinct in the last position diminishes this type’s need forintimacy and intensity. Being social types, however, this subtype of Three canmimic a sexual variant’s vivaciousness and out-reaching. However, they sometimes lack the resources for sustained intimacy, because the social and self-pres needs will trump the effort for closer bonds. As a result, unhealthyThrees of this stacking will have many colleagues in high places andsuccessful, respectable acquaintances; but may be lacking deep, true friends.
When this subtype is healthy, they can become very generous and can direct their high energy and enthusiasm into the social sphere with extremely positiveresults.
