SP/SO 三号的本能变体（一）
自保/社交
这个副型是第三型中最保守和最内向的，也许是最努力的工作者。他们通常在工作上非常努力，不论他们选择在哪方面，他们都会在这方面变得非常优秀。他们通常做那些会让他们处于顶尖位置的事情。有一种强烈的超越的意愿，尽管这些被选择的领域可能对于不同的三号来说是非常不同的。这些三号以一种安静的方式富于竞争性。在健康的时候，对于他们已经学习和取得的东西可以是非常慷慨的。驱使他们努力的动机归结于他们对于自己不够好的恐惧。自保三似乎感觉他们得到提拔、拥有足够的钱或者买一个足够大的房子，他们就在别人眼里就是值得被爱的、被欣赏的，最终停止觉得自己是个失败者。认为他们就是他们所取得的成就这一错误信念是自保/社交三这些行为背后的驱动力。当更健康时，这个副型意识到他们的努力工作不会改变他们内部根本上的感受。他们学着优先处理他们生活中的其他方面。他们慢下来，并开始接受自己本来的样子。因为他们的性本能是最差的，亲密关系上的能量更少。这些三号可能因此出现亲密关系比较紧张的时期，直到他们学会慢下来并优先处理他们的人际关系。
Self-pres/Social
This subtype is the most reserved and introverted of the subtypes of enneatypeThree, and possibly the hardest worker. They generally put a great deal of effort into their work, excelling at whatever they choose to do. They usually do what it takes to rise to the top. There is a strong desire to excel,although the areas chosen may differ widely from one Three to the next. These Threes are competitive in a quiet way. On the high side, they can be very generous with what they have learned and acquired. The driving motivation fortheir hard work comes down to their fear of not being good enough. Self-pres Threes seem to feel that if they get that promotion, have enough money or buy abig enough house they will then be lovable, admired by others and finally stop feeling like a failure. The false belief that they are what they accomplish is the driving force behind the behavior of self-pres/soc Threes. When healthier,this subtype comes to the realization that all of their hard work won’t changewhat they fundamentally feel inside. They learn to prioritize other aspects oftheir lives. They slow down and begin to accept themselves as they are. As thesexual instinct is last, less energy is available for intimate relationships.These Threes can therefore have a hard time with intimacy until they learn to slow down and prioritize their relationships.
