焦虑在一对一六号的身上不显著,特别是当自保本能排在最后的时候。我们联系焦虑是最典型的东西却在这一副型上不明显。他们的焦虑集中于关系的舞台上,因为他们的反恐惧倾向是最强的,焦虑不总明显,这种六号也许并不注意焦虑的存在。也许所有的六号都可能会有这样的情况。他们的焦虑存在于核心层,以至于六号总是不知道如何去评估它的存在。所以,即使更明显焦虑的副型也许也没意识到底层的焦虑。在他们保护他们爱的人和社交形象时,一对一/社交可能表现得像八号。
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Sexual/Social
The counterphobic stance of the sexual Six can be seen in competition for attracting the right mate, and in testing to see who is worthy of trust. This is true of both sexual subtypes and especially true of the sexual/social. This type is likely to be found quite commonly among actresses and actors as they tend towards a dramatic presentation. Their need to be identified with their desirability and their strong social instinct, combine to sometimes make them public figures. They are less possessive of their mates, but still feel the need to have control in the relationship. They can have a very focused intensity. They can appear Four-like in their desire to express themselves and give into their passions. They define themselves in accordance with the prevailing gender norms opting to appear masculine or feminine as the case may be. This outward energy is sometimes counterbalanced with inward doubting, which can lead to depression, anger, and acting out, at the lower levels of health.
Anxiety isn’t as noticeable with the sexual variant of type Six, especially when the self-pres instinct is last. The typical things we associate with anxiety aren’t obvious with this subtype. Their anxiety is focused in the arena of relationships, and since their stance is mostly counterphobic, anxiety is not always obvious, and the Six too might be unaware of its presence. This can be true of all the subtypes of type Six. Their anxiety exists at a core level so that Sixes don't always know how to gauge its existence. So, even the more visibly anxious subtypes might not be aware of their underlying anxiety. The sexual/social can appear Eight-like, in their defense of their loved ones and social standing.